Clitoral Stimulation and Mutual Orgasm
In a perfect world, at the height of mans deepest orgasmic thrust, a woman would melt into an entirely orgasmic state and for men’s additional satisfaction it would be even better if women could ejaculate in pretty colors too, if only to prove to men that it had actually happened. It seems illogical and unbelievable, given how quickly thrusting leads to an orgasm for a man, that a woman would enjoy thrusting in a different way, and will almost always require the stimulation of her clitoris for her orgasm to occur.
The problem is that the clitoris is not touched by the p3nis during penetration and that means that for most women, no amount of in/out thrusting, at any speed will ever cause her to reach an orgasm. In most lovemaking positions it is hard for a man to stimulate the clitoris during penetration because their two bodies are pressed closely together. This usually denies a couple the opportunities for a simultaneous orgasm during lovemaking.
Just to be clear, I’m not knocking thrusting, it is my favorite thing to do, but try not to get lulled into thinking that as you thrust faster, or when you are reaching your boiling point, that she is too. She may make noises matching your level of excitement, but do not speed up if you are thinking that you will both reach the finish line at the same time. You will reach the finish line, and unfortunately she will not.
Women reach orgasm through the clitoral stimulation, so being a skilled lover means stimulating her clitoris with a vibrator, finger or tongue. Thrusting at 90 miles an hour, for 90 seconds or even 90 minutes will not bring her to orgasm, so slow down and avoid sprinting to an early ejaculation. Enjoy being in the moment and try to stay there to enjoy it longer.
It is very important that a man not tie his self-esteem to providing a female orgasm, which ideally he wants to happen as a result of his p3nis’ thrusting. It is unusual for a female orgasm to occur by thrusting alone so don’t be disappointed when it doesn’t happen. Keep enjoying thrusting to show her how virile and excited you are about her, but make sure she has her orgasm too, and the surest way is to use technology and superior positioning for mutual fun.
Technology provides us with powerful vibrator, which is considered most effective for a woman’s clitoris. Dr Ruth endorses this vibrator claiming it is preferred by 70% of women in a recent study. Multi speed, easy on off slider switch, with many choices of stimulating heads, this vibrator is generally considered the best for clitoral stimulation. A superior position is required because in most positions there is no space between bodies during penetrating lovemaking, usually resulting in an un-stimulated clitoris. Two new inventions solve this problem, a hands free vibrator holder provides ideal positioning and adjustability for direct clitoral stimulation, and the newest s3xual positioning furniture creates the ideal female lovemaking position for male thrusting and clitoral stimulation at the same time. These are the ingredients for a simultaneous orgasm you just need good timing to make it happen.
It is a good idea to make erotic love for a long time to relish in the experience and then ask her the ideal time to switch on the vibrator, but make sure you adjust it into position and familiarize yourself with the on/off switch prior to lovemaking. Men should be cautious against early ejaculation, but prepared for the best of pleasures as you will notice the v4gina walls contract during her orgasm and they will certainly clamp hard onto your p3nis. A man has to be careful because he is receiving 3 different stimulations to his p3nis at the same time. 1/ The natural awesomeness of entering the mouth, feeling the cervix inside and enjoying the walls and depths of her v4gina. 2/ The contractions of the v4ginal walls on her climb to orgasm, and 3/ The notice-able tickle of a nearby vibrator permeating through her v4ginal wall to your p3nis.
Caution is required to avoid a premature ejaculation and often the only defense is withdrawing the p3nis entirely to for a few seconds to cool off. Erotic massage is perfect because it keeps the pleasure and closeness going if a man needs to lower his own stimulation level. It is better to temporarily withdraw and re-enter several times than it is to ejaculate too early. Better still if you can communicate or guess when the absolute best time to be inside of her, is. After some short breaks and re-entering several times you can roughly guess how long you can last before ejaculation for when you decide to go for the gusto. All you have to do is to guess when she is the same amount of time away from her climax, as you are and that will be soon, now that the vibrator is working its special magic.
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